Thanks again Litb. Feel like youre my personal experience DB coach... much appreciated.

Had a great night in the city- good food, good friends.

W text me Fell asleep w D4. Very relaxed. See you in the morning. She facetimed me around 5pm I was busy. Didnt answer or call back. Havent responded to texts.

Last night she said- Hope you have a good night. Wanted to text you but didn't want to say anything heavy... then this morning she said she didnt know what she wanted to say but something nice or positive.

Did facetime this afternoon with D4.

In the morning I'm thinking of saying something like- Im glad you had a relaxing night. Im still waiting for whatever you were going to say nice, positive and heavy... I think we should stick to communicating about D4 unless we are both in a place to be kind and build our relationship consistently.

Or maybe I should think like a pro DBer and just say- Im glad you had a relaxing night. I think we should stick to communicating about D4 for now.

Thank you for the advice all... appreciate you.


H: 33 W:32
M: 5 T: 8
D: 4
BD: 6/2017
MO: 6/2017
House sold: 6/28/18
W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18
Paying $ support since 7/18.
Physical Reconnect- 10/18
W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18