No I am not going to be locked up. I have leave town on a few days for work. Can someone give me the rule and reason why I shouldn't see my ex before I leave? I know there are reasons. Hey, we ate divorced now and she has a man but I want to see her and I know it is a bad move. I am really beginning to hate. I know that she doesn't want me+or I have to assume that based on the evidence.