I have spent a wonderful day meeting new people. I joined a women's social group and today was the first event at a local winery. It felt good to just sit and relax and talk about things other than my crazy life. I never once looked at my phone to see if H had tried to contact me ( that is a huge accomplishment for me ) I came away from the event with 5 new friends and phone numbers and plans for next weekend.. I am proud of myself for getting outside my comfort zone ( I am very shy )… I am getting a life and starting to have fun..
Its been 2 weeks since I have heard from my H, I have to be honest, I do feel that he is finally done with me as this is the longest we have gone without communication since BD. .although it has been mostly me reaching out to him , I feel that now I have backed away he will disappear from m y life completely now..
He has not had any communication with our adult daughter for over 6 months now ( his choice ) But on Thursday he sent her a text out of the blue and told her his aunts husband dies and he was leaving town to attend the funeral . Our daughter didn't know what to think or say..we both have no idea why he did this.. he is ignoring me and not making any attempt to contact me so why reach out to her now after all these months ? it makes no sense .. he was not close to his aunts husband , and our daughter never met him.. our daughter feels he didn't take OW with him to the funeral , which if he didn't take her that would be really big.. as he has not gone anywhere without her since they met and they have been together now for 3.5 years … I don't know what to think of all this...
