When she text you something like she did last night, I suggest responding with something like this: "It has been a great night. Thank you. Going forward, we should only communicate regarding D. Our recent communication does not work for me. Wishing you a great night as well."
Something like that. Then stick to it, because that is your boundary. She knows what buttons to push to get a response out of you. Time to put a stop to that.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa