DB / Detach- Will we ever piece it together

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Litb - super appreciative. Maybe I’ll tattoo that on my thigh - this hasn’t worked etc. I did have a brief recon a few days after oM1. I let her back super easily. Huge mistake. Last winter. Should of made her work for it.

A couple weeks ago W had migraines and was throwing up. Her parents pushed her to go to the emergency and got a cat scan she asked me to come which I did. I didn’t answer for Ann hour or two because I was busy gal first. But she was very appreciative and thanked me a bunch told me how’s much it’s meant for me to be there. I forgot to check if they had ran health Insurance which I pay for... they never asked for it according to W. So she just got an 8k bill. She wants me to put it through insurance so I did call her to talk about that. She said she’s so upset but she is acting as if the bill is on her besides whatever insurance covers.

During the convo Talking to D4 she is like dad come over we’re making chocolate chip cookies. W is like tell dad what we’re making... it’s like she wants me to pursue her. I’m not going over but it break at my heart a little bit for D4. Just have to be patient.

Last night W had texted me. Hope you have a good night. Wanted to text you but didn't want to say anything heavy Which obviously messes with my head a bit. Asked her what she wanted to say this morning and she said idk something nice and positive... meanwhile I’m thinking she was going to say I think we shouldn’t divorce.

No contact. Going into the city tonight for dinner with friends. Taking D4 to see my family tomorrow. Been in the gym looking good. In therapy. GAL 180s. Detach. I’ll get this DB thing. When she texts just ignore her? Or minimal response.

Do what works