You're good Pain. I'm also a little confused about the 'friend zone' thing. I guess it all depends on what type of relationship you/we had with our W's prior to BD? I mean, if the relationship was very close, talkative, etc, then the need to build a 'friendship' probably isn't as great as it is when the 'connection' wasn't there for a while?
Thank you. I'm happy that what I'm feeling is normal.
We had a close relationship. Lots of hugging, cuddling, kissing. Very little sex (my fault). Not very talkative and at times I was scared/angry to talk to her (NGS symptom). I want to build something with her, but I don't/can't want to live my life in limbo. The connection was really frayed towards BD but we still communicated/talked.
