You're good Pain. I'm also a little confused about the 'friend zone' thing. I guess it all depends on what type of relationship you/we had with our W's prior to BD? I mean, if the relationship was very close, talkative, etc, then the need to build a 'friendship' probably isn't as great as it is when the 'connection' wasn't there for a while?
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
