Also saw something in Did’s sitch that worries me. DB coach tells me to foster a friendship and treat her like a sibling. He said LBS of a WAW would default to attempting an R since they don’t want to be “friend-zoned”. So the better option would be to make conversations and meetings friendly.
On the other hand, being friendly is not the way to go. I’m slowly trying to nudge things but I’m afraid that if I treat her like a friend...that it will be the beginning of the end of M and we can ever be is friends.
Damnit. I was feeling so good until yesterday. This feels like a setup to a huge setback. What/how should I proceed? Continue to stay as dark as I can? Let W warm up on her own? I want to tell her but I know it’s too early. It’s way too early and I don’t want to undo the good progress I made.
My emotions are trying to take over my logic. It’s mounting something furious. I know I can’t let it take over, but its getting hard.
