Gordie 21 going with my gut

[Gordie]

Marina

I am so sorry for your diagnosis

Re w and kids

At the beginning I was trying to help w with kids

I took the advice here and stepped back

It is her r with the kids not mine

That was sound advice

Some of my kids wanted nothing to do with her

And I needed to let that happen

Despite w getting mad at me for not intervening

How can you let them treat me like this

As if it was all my fault

So what I learned is that kids will follow my example

As I have let my guard down

So have the kids



Black

I do not know all your details

But it does not seem right to me

You have all the financial info

You should give it to her



DNJ

Thanks for checking in on me

Things still inching along

I got another unsolicited ILY

Which is still awkward for both of us

W surprised me

We received an invitation to a couples party

I said nothing about it

Actually assumed we would not go

And then w accepted

We have not been seen socially as a couple

In a long time