DB / Detach- Will we ever piece it together

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Thanks Litb I appreciate your time. Stop spending time with her even if she wants to get to know each other again and build a relationship? Last night she texts me I want to text you but I don’t want to say anything too heavy. New moon- emoji. This could mean just about anything including I want to move forward with divorce. I wake up and see it early in the morning and can’t sleep.

I want my woman back. Stop spending time with her detach gal until what? She makes a decision? She said she’s bored and lonely so that’s why she was swiping on dating app. We could be talking instead. She just doesn’t see it the way I do at this point st least. I’m a leader and I’m really tired of giving her all the power in the relationship. Or lack there of. I will do it. I texted her back what did you want to say? I’m just going to stop talking to her. It’s the only thing that has worked so far.

I did come up with a schedule for the rest of the month yesterday and tell her. Really want the intimacy with the W I married. To wake up with my daughter every day. I think I’ll do just about anything to get there but I have to be strong and consistent. So do what works not what I want.