Good day. Went out for a run. Came back, we went for some errands in the city. On the way back, W, out of nowhere mentioned about a conversation she had with one of her female friends in which her friend told her, her H has zero issues with her having male friends and that if he doesn't like it he is free to leave...
I said I had no issues with it either as long as nothing funny is going on (mistake in hindsight). W took it as a passive-aggressive comment directed at her and OM. To which I had to explained again that I've moved on from this bullshit and encouraged her to try me out by telling me whenever she speaks, chats, or goes out to meet him (another rookie mistake). She didn't commit to doing so, just said it didn't matter because they don't talk anymore because of me (confirmed lie). Came home prepared lunch together, had lunch with the kids, then worked together on a household budget like she asked. Watched some TV in the evening. W went to sleep shortly thereafter, while I stayed up on the DB forum to refuel my mind.
Another successful day (other than those 2 small mistakes) of detachment and giving zero fucks about her A. I'm better than that, better than her morally, and have better and more important things to do and think about than this crap - like GALing and 180ing. I don't need to lie, hide, or be doing anything inappropriate. It's her predicament and a choice she made. I'm moving on. She can choose to join the trip or simply jump off this train...
#GAL #180 #DB #DetachYourself #AnotherGoodDay
Last edited by Matrix5; 09/09/1803:55 AM.
M (LBS): 41, W (WAS) : 40 M: 16Y, T: 22Y Kids: 11, 9, 9 A: since 2015 DB: since July 2017
