For those curious for an update I did get a text from WAW about 8 days ago, The Thursday before last. She apparently needed to borrow $40. So I told her I couldn't give it to her until the next day. She thanked me and she asked if I wanted her to come my way. I told her we could meet wherever but I had a lot to do since it was my only day off and it would have to be later in the day. She asked why don't I come to her place anytime after 6. I agreed. So I stopped by and dropped it off to her but left after about 20 minutes.

She also texted me a few days later on my birthday wishing me a happy one. I thanked her.

That's about it. I've been super busy so I haven't had time to post here but it's just more of the same crap with her.
She did mention that she is not dating anymore until next year. Not sure why she wanted to share that but somehow it came up at one point. So yeah I don't expect many updates to come...there clearly won't be an R and I am so bored with her. I'm kind of into a new lady too...but taking it slow. Also got a text from Mary out of the blue just telling me she was watching my favorite movie and was frustrated because she "couldn't get my voice out of her head." Whatever, these women are nuts. Then again maybe I am. smile

In any event, I know many of you who are suffering with your bomb drops being recent were hoping for a happy ending here but I'm sorry to say it's not going to happen. Believe me, I wish I hadn't failed for you all but I can't make her see light.

I leave you all for now with this classic Eagles lyric that always reminds me of her...

"Just remember this my girl, when you look up in the sky; you can see the stars and still not see the light."

Last edited by ItHurts; 09/09/18 03:02 AM. Reason: Corrected a sentence
ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14