3 year old EA - where do I go from here?

[Matrix5]

Go find female friends. Take her challenge. Do it. GAL. She knows she has you where she wants you right now that's why she's saying that. Accept her challenge. I guarantee when you do it will wake her up in a hurry Matrix.

OK... Question is: do I tell her that I'm going to meet <insert chick's name> here? Because she claims she doesn't even care to know. Meaning that if I make plans, I don't even need to let her know whom I'm going out with.

I'm just afraid she'll use it against me should it come down to a divorce. not necessarily as the mere cause for the divorce, but more so as a justification for her own actions. "if he does it, now I can finally do it with clear conscious".

You know what I mean?

Wish you and I could meet for a beer. Sounds like we have a lot in common. I wanted to send you a private message with my phone number so we can text (if you don't mind of course), but looks like both of us are newbies here on the forum, and PMs are disabled for the time being...