Some advice please, from the veterans: cleaning out one of my dresser drawers, I found a collection of cards my wife gave me over the years. One of which was a card which she wrote a month before we wed, saying she could not wait to marry me. The anniversary is coming up in a few weeks. I ponder if I should save these or use one of them to send each months child support. I do it to remind her what she once felt of me but also help me learn to let go. I kept these cards because they meant so much to me, but I feel holding on to them only causes more pain for me. What do you think? Thank you.
