We are slowly solving things. She is attracted to me again sex is back on the table. As far as her EA she has brought it up and said she has no real interest in the guy. Perhaps she was getting something out of it she wasn't getting from me. Is it still going on? She said it's not. Do I know that with 100 percent certainty? I do not. I have no desire to snoop either. As far as I'm concerned he's not half the man I am. I am now secure with myself. If she did choose to divorce me for this guy I would give them 6 months tops, it would be a rebound to less, and I have a whole life waiting out there for me to live without her if that's what she chose. I love my wife and want my marriage but I can only make my own choices.
