I tend to agree with TripleJ, in that your W is crossing a line and is being totally disrespectful.
I know you have a strong stance on not moving out and it sounds like you are sleeping more in seperate accomodations. Can you make this more "permanent"? I'm thinking you can go darker while still living in a same house. Some here have made it work for them ... such as either pretend you're asleep when she comes home or be ready to walk out the door just as she gets in, even if its just a half hour to an hour drive around or to meditate in a church (do churches keep their doors open in the "city that never sleeps"?). Let her settle in and hopefully nod off by the time you come back.
Merrick ... a little while back while I wasn't around here much, you had asked on my thread, if I'd be interested in getting together for an outing. We can take it off the bb, but let me know if you are still interested.
