Why15, I'm reading the Divorce Remedy as well right now. I keep dozing off reading due to getting used to a new hectic first week of school schedule with the little one in kindergarten now...lol! I believe I have I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You as well in my list to read. The worst part for me is patience and letting go to let it all happen, how are you holding up? I'll bet your daughter is a big support for you.
Jlh, I am holding up ok.. staying busy this weekend and focusing on me... reading , a movie with a friend, wine tasting tomorrow with a social group... I understand the patience and letting go thing.. my H is basically living a life with OW as if we are completely divorced.. the mess he has created is beyond crazy and bizarre..it really is as if he has his own set of rules, like he just snapped his fingers and I am disposed of.. put away and as long as he pays the bills everything is ok.. under normal circumstances if a spouse was so unhappy in their marriage they would go talk to an attorney and get things lined up , pack their bags and get a place of their own and get the divorce over with.. instead my H was home, didn't say a word about how miserable he was, did not say to me that if things did not change he was going to leave.. he just went out , found OW, was with her for 2 months when I get a phone call exposing it all, I asked him to stop seeing her, he refused, he moved in with her and they are living like a married couple...if I bring up divorce he gets angry and shuts down.. it is total insanity..
Our daughter is hurting so much in all this.. she misses her dad so much, they were so close.. and now he is playing daddy to OWs 7 year old son.. H has nothing to do with our daughter , its like we have both been erased from his life and we do not exist.
