Sorry to hear that update equalzr. Those conversations have got to be rough.

Yeah. Her focus is all on her, and her happiness, and it complete blinds her to all the destruction she is leaving in her wake. That said, stop believing everything or anything that she says. Of course she is going to rewrite history, of course she is going to pretend like there are no negatives to the path she is choosing. That's how she lives with herself. That's the story she has convinced herself is true.

I think you are smart to try to limit the D and R talk. Obviously it is her who is initiating but it seems like too much, and it isn't doing you any good.

W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019