Hi Merrick,
My heart goes out to u regarding this abuse,I went thru almost the same sort of thing twice with my W,it's hard I know,and what did you do to desrve it,my deal wasn't that she "wanted" me though. Gosh it brings back a sad memory of my short and sad marriage. But worse it makes me feel so sad for my W as she has so many issues she seems to not have overcome even with me being gone. I wrote her yesterday about my dog having pups and the response was another one of her silly assumptions. I surely was very happy for her when she had hers,why isn't this returned? But such is how she is,and honestly,she is doing a good job of pushing me away from her,so much for being "friends". Truely sad in my mind to see how it's all about her,she could care less, at least what I see, about what shitty position I am in. As time goes on,I will do for myself what I need to and will rise above all this,and maybe even just not even deal with her any longer. OTO

PS,I thought abiouyt charging her myself for her assult,kinda wish I had now cause it might have woke her up then,and maybe we would still be together,but,maybe not.