LITB your story is truly a saga. I have been reading for hours the last couple nights and am to August 2011. Wish you had linked new threads at end of old ones. Lol.
Unbelievable that you have R! Makes me remember how much id love to love My W Maybe I’m less mature or impatient but I’ve been at this 15 months. I doubt I earn as much $ as you and I’ve paid W 8k already and we aren’t divorced. This is a big reason I’ve thought just divorce. W doesn’t care about the marriage says it’s just piece of paper. Won’t consider D4 time or financial security orb wuality of life in her decisions. Only our relationship. W is smart. If Fd up. I’ve thought a fee times I wish she was more religious.
One stat I found interesting that someone threw out in your sitch was 20% if divorced couples remarry. I thought it was much lower.
My W seems to have some things in common beautiful entitled etc. But she hasn’t gotten back to work yet hopefully next month. Unsure if I pay as much or any support after this month. Going to wait and see. Wish she could open up to me or I could read her mind. Her priorities completely changed from the W I marrried.
Do you recommend barely responding to w? This new woman I have dated is great but the passion isn’t there for me because I still have love for W. I do not want to use her at all. She’s such a good person.
I’m going to DB hard. Feel like I can learn so much from you. Hope to hear from you moving forward.
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
H: 33 W:32 M: 5 T: 8 D: 4 BD: 6/2017 MO: 6/2017 House sold: 6/28/18 W wants to build friendship / relationship- 9/18 Paying $ support since 7/18. Physical Reconnect- 10/18 W Starts- IC / MC - 10/18
