Steve, that's a good point. Keep it fun. When you have gone through a season of not much more than stress and tension as a couple, keeping it fun is huge IMO. Throughout MC years ago the MC would say this. Of course, it was near imposable because I was a mess and not yet detached.
I say these things to remind myself as well as perhaps help others. Being the Lighthouse needs to include fun. WW or WAWs are often coming off of a euphoric high. If you offer a future that doesn't include fun you are at an even bigger disadvantage.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
