Is there hope? I have a WW

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Lane we are in very similar situations but mine is still living here. BD 5/10 and found out 3 days later it was PA. May was brutal but I made it here. Had a drunken July/Aug thought W wanted to R we spent a lot of time together, sex, etc but I soon realized I was still sharing and fully detached. Wish I was stronger sooner but am in my own room.

Crazy but she also seems detaching from me and in her eyes I am responsible for all the pain and damage in our marriage. She spends every weekend away with OM and says that’s the only way she can get any rest yet won’t commit to D. She also started using maiden name on IG. Start there don’t look, I fight not to but you will not see anything you want. Typically just quotes that you think are directed towards you.

Love the exercising, it helps. Read, call a friend, meet up with someone for coffee, lunch, dinner. It’s scary to do things that we haven’t done in so long. Our lives revolves around our spouses and what they wanted to do. It’s you time. Feel free to look at my thread, this stinks and I have good and bad days but I remember May, they were all bad days.