Have read a couple of your threads and your sitch is similar to mine in W has shown no respect whatsoever since BD and has only been self serving to whatever suites her.
I’ve tried those truth bombs via texts a couple months ago....it may feel good in the moment, but it set me back to the basement regarding progress.
I’m same way in standing for MR and want to make sure no stone, rock, or pebble is left.
I guess you need to determine what end goal is...
I’m not in favor of being friends with WAS after all she has put me and S thru. Yet W still envisions us going on family vacations together, expects me to live across street from her place, etc. All nonsense.
When w initially filed, she called to ask that I go pick up the papers downtown so she wouldn’t have to pay service processor. The way WAW thinks and acts is just wackadoo nuts.
I’m at the crossroads of ponying up for attorney. It’s been my saving grace at my stage as it really forces reality into WAS false reality.
Best of luck.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18