Husband aged, trying 180 (4)

[Ready2Change]

If he brings up Divorce again, do I pretend to agree or do I just say ok?

I like the suggestion of "OK".

or

H:"I want a D"
W:"I am glad you brought that up. I have actually downloaded the forms and have begun filling them out. When I am done, I will let you review them."

CAREFULLY watch his reaction.

Do I continue to validate? I have noticed some success with the validating.

YES. Agreeing is even more powerful.