I honestly do not know if he would be able to afford a place of his own, he is still paying half the mortgage at our home. But I know if I were to say something to him about his own place he would be SHOCKED. Total 180. My only fear with stuff like that is me acting like im okay with it and then he actually does it and ill be devastated I think.
When I think of him being sad, I want to save him. But then when I think that hes possibly speaking to OW, I become angry, hurt, heartbroken, disgusted, absolutely so sick to my stomach, and I think to myself WHY am I so scared of making him mad when he should be worried about making me mad just as much.
If he brings up Divorce again, do I pretend to agree or do I just say ok?I feel like I will be tested soon by him trying to get a rise out of me since I havent been giving him much on the R front and ive been speaking to talk about our daughter. So I want to be prepared for my responses. Do I continue to validate? I have noticed some success with the validating.
