I am scared for when he gets a place because I will lose time with her. But I know it has to happen. Why do you believe it is important?
For one, it will signify to him that this current arrangement (him coming and going from YOUR place) will eventually come to a halt.
Second, it shows him that this "move out" is not temporary. That you meant what you said when you said he can't "bunk" there but be living a life completely separately, and with an OW in his life.
ready might have some other reasons too, but those were the two that stuck out to me.
Right now he is thinking that he will eventually "sad" you into letting him move back in.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
