I question that last if. Were your intentions pure?
First, why the forum you chose? Why FB? And if you don't feel bad about it (you repeated that many times in your post almost as if you were trying to convince yourself as much as us) then why did you take it down?
BM, I am right there with Steve, your entire post read to me like control, manipulation and passive/ aggressive behavior. What I can't figure out is if you are trying to deceive us or yourself that your intentions were pure. They weren't, and I'm sure on some level you know that. One thing I've got to tell you, DB'ing isn't very effective if you're not 100% open and honest with us and with yourself. Don't take that the wrong way, I am saying it in the spirit of helping you, not to make you mad. You did a lot wrong in that interaction and you need to own it!
