Navigating through and concentrating on myself #6

[Dtrmned]

At least I was mostly prepared.

Knowing we were going to have to have the housing discussion as I mentioned earlier it happened today.

My W actually brought it up. Said she was looking and probably found a mediator. Nothing scheduled. She also mentioned the living situation. I acknowledged that I was thinking of that as well. I did ask whether I was looking for a place for just me and the kids or all of us. Her response was that she was looking for this time to be when we parted ways. She even mentioned that she may be gone prior to the holidays as she doesn't want that kind of depression/pressure/issues to happen during the holidays.

She mentioned trying to move school districts as D is unhappy with hers. Problem is S is VERY happy with his. My office is close to their schools and I could easily find a place in this area to make logistics for them and me easier.

Got the "I have been their primary caregiver" speech of which I stated we have both sacrificed and invested in our children's lives in different roles.

I did preface the discussion that I didn't want to get into an argument or any type of marital discussion.

This is what she says she is thinking.

Thoughts....