Not sure if I should be doing anything different besides being less available, Gal and working on myself but that’s my focus for now. Hope I have the chance to DB and stay the course after she starts pursuing next time.
Yes, good. And to be clear I'm not saying be cold and indifferent, a lot of people seem to think that's DB'ing. Giving space doesn't mean being rude though! At the same time, you can't "nice her back" so it's walking a fine line. That's why I refer to Sandi's rules all the time, they are a great template for how to behave. "Loving detachment".
Originally Posted by Davide
How do you find those old threads? I have so much trouble working the search function on here.
The easiest way is to find a post by that person and click their name next to the post, then click "show forum posts". It'll show you all their posts going back to the beginning.
