He is trying to manipulate you to get it back. Quite being so available. Quit responding to every text. Quit reacting to hats. Stick to your guns with not letting him move back. Keep DBing!
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If you do not hear what Steve is saying and change your interactions with H, you will end up divorced.
This is definitely enough to scare me. I dont want to end up divorced obviously. I plan to stick to my guns. I feel like im finally in a better position, I want to keep this position. I just dont know how to do it necessarily. But i believe we have a plan in place for the weekend so I will hold him to it, and keep myself busy. He made a comment the other day talking to the baby and he said "Your moms always so busy doing a million things". And I hate when he says things like that because hes not here during all the hours Im just hanging out with her playing and stuff. He makes it like Im too busy doing things to slow down and enjoy her. ALL I do is enjoy her. Hes not here.
And im obviously trying to be busy and leave when he is here. So I dont know if its backfiring but I also dont care. I will continue to be the lighthouse. I think some things might be starting to catch up to him in his own life, business wise, money wise, etc, I dont know. We will see.