I like the attitude of getting over this and moving forward with the DBing! Very well done bm. I know I was hard on your actions in your update, but now all you can do is move forward.

I would wait a while, and then tell her "That cannot occur this weekend until Sunday afternoon at the earliest. I am busy most of the time until then."

More than likely she won't respond.

But yes keep GAL (like this weekend). Keep 180ing (like no more snooping, avoid OM at all costs, etc). And definitely keep trying to detach. This latest incident proves you haven't detached......so make that your focus moving forward.

ONWARD AND UPWARD!!


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018