We had school activites at my S's school, and both my W and I went separately. Its akward being around families that you have known for years, but we arent together any more. Really [censored] about how my W can go on with life as normal and be happy through this.

Since she filed, there has been a definote change in her activities. The last two weeks or so shes been at home a bit more and is really playing nice with our S. I came home last night and she was even sitting in the living room watching tv with him. That never happens, she spends 99% of her time when shes home in the MBR. Shes obviously preparing for a custody battle. Pretty sad imo. She treated him pretty bad at times for over a year.

Throughout most of our sitch she was gone probably 4-5 nights a week from afternoon til 3-5 a.m. she doesnt think that was deserting her family though. I cant disagree more, and in God's eyes its deserting your family. Im not sure if that will jave any bearing on custody case or not, but i dont know why she wants custody so bad when she isnt even home but instead she spends the majority of time with O.M. I think they have already planned their future together. Why cant she just leave me and S alone and go be with O.M.?

Last edited by equalzr; 09/07/18 04:14 PM.

Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof