Originally Posted by LH19

The bad news is your wife is having an affair with your co-worker and is cake eating like there is no tomorrow. Make no mistake about it she is having an affair.

If you knew for sure and had 100% concrete evidence would it change anything for you? Is it a deal breaker? If it is not stop confronting her about it.


I think if I came across concrete evidence that an intercourse was involved, that is something I don't think I can just move on from. That would be a big red line for me.

Originally Posted by LH19

Read up on boundaries and comeback and post some boundaries you may want to set. Don't do or say anything to your wife until you post them here first.

We are here for you. Get to work!


Will do, thank you very much


M (LBS): 41, W (WAS) : 40
M: 16Y, T: 22Y
Kids: 11, 9, 9
A: since 2015
DB: since July 2017