First post, what next?

[Gordie]

You are under extreme stress

There is biological fight or flight response

So important to de stress

Be the steady one

You are still attached

So when she is nice to you then you are happy

And when she is cold then you feel bad

Detachment is the path to be steady and strong and independent no matter how she treats you

How to re center your life from w at the center to you at the center

You will find peace there

And ultimately this is more attractive to women

The strong and steady and independent man

Who can handle anything that is thrown his way

If you start acting this way

W may notice and ask how you are

Just say fine

How are you

Very common when you stop being weak and attached

She will think something is up

Maybe she is getting dumped

And maybe you are moving on