Steve, thanks for the quick response. So you think what hes doing right now isnt really remorse, its more of him just wanting to feel like he has me on the hook?
Yes. It is kind of like in my sitch, my W wasn't sorry she was having an EA, she was sorry she got caught.
LBSs are notorious for being the most selfish creatures on the planet. Do not believe for a moment that his "it is so hard to leave her" texts are anything more than manipulations attempts. Even if the underlying feelings are real (he really does hate leaving her), but think about this morning. He was leaving for work. He would have had to leave her this morning even if he was still in the house!
As far as the hat:
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dont think he was even thinking about it honestly, he wears a million hats, but hes told me he would burn it in the past and clearly its still here.
He told he would burn it. Clearly the hat has been a point of contention before. You honestly don't believe that he didn't think about that when he put that hat on as he was getting ready to come to see you (and D)?? Sorry not buying it. I have a ton of hats too, and I always think about the hat I am putting on my head, where I am going. etc.
But no the hat thing was more of a missed opportunity (not to react) than a real setback. More of a holding serve rather than gaining ground.
ANyway, keep DBing.........but please consider my advice about not responding to every single one of his texts.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
