I mentioned the coffee spilling on the rug thing because normally, he knows thats something that would make me so mad. And I was super calm and cleaned it up and handled it just really calmly. So I think its me doing things like that and how I am being towards him that is making him see changes in me.




Steve, thanks for the quick response. So you think what hes doing right now isnt really remorse, its more of him just wanting to feel like he has me on the hook?

i am glad he is feeling some sadness from all of this, because I have felt like only I have been mourning our R, and hes been living it up. But it seems like he is sad as well. no?

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