I just wanted to stop in to offer my thanks for your advice to me as well as my support for your sitch. It seems like you are really working hard in a positive direction and I certainly respect and admire that. I've learned so much from others here on the board and I appreciate you continuing to add information so that others (like me) might learn from it.
I also really like KAW's advice about thanking her for allowing you the opportunity to work on yourself. It is true that if these situations hadn't happened we never would have learned about ourselves as quickly as we are now.
