Good Morning OK, i know this is a very struggling time for you this week to say the least. Life is strange, amazing, depressing, fun and overall the best experience those of us at the top of the food chain get to experience. That being said, you are going through hopefully the worse thing that will every happen to you. Eventually, there will be challenges, but the roses and rainbows will appear more frequently.
When everything comes to a close, the emotions and reality comes full force and hits you in the face.
How you react and respond is up to you. One quote from a boxing movie " It doesn't matter how hard you get it, what matters is you get up and keep going" I don't know if that is word for word, but you get the gist.
You got sucker punched. It happens to everyone in a lot of difference aspects in life. This one is way too close to the heart, so its pain is much deeper.
I have followed the entire rollercoaster of what has happened to you. It is phenomenal. I feel your pain, frustration, and utter disbelief where you are in almost all of your posts. Regardless of the outcome, i wish you the best in planning and executing your life for the future of you and your child.
Best of luck and keep busy until Tuesday so you aren't in your head too much.
My small advice. Don't react to anything your W says between now and then without getting some input from the experts (i.e not me) prior to doing anything.
Stay well, focus on you and your child and enjoy your weekend!
M51 W44 T21 M18 D14 S11 BD date 9/17 W filed 02/18 W withdrew petition following week In house separation 03/18 In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18 W is moving out by mid Nov 2018 A drawing up paperwork 11/18