Is there hope? I have a WW

[LANE777]

Hi there R2C. I haven't read those yet. Right now I'm just staying strong for my 4 kids. This was an absolute blindside. I still have some very tough days not having my family together. I've been detaching as much as possible. I just know she has her mind set on this OM. It's so heartbreaking. There's been some awsome people helping me on here. And I read everything thing very close and apply it the best I can. My biggest hang up is that my W and I get along fine. But we hardly talk. I dont dare bring anything up about our R or M. And I for sure dont bring up the D that she wants/wanted sadly back in July. She stays at her parents. Hangs with her friends from work and the OM who she also works with. What has me in the dumps is they are leaving on a trip Sunday for 5 days...big ouch. No one sees a future with them. Hes a single guy 33..no kids never been married. My wife 38 ,married, 4 kids - has a major health problem. Needs a kidney transplant. So yeah! You got me. It's the most bizarre thing to me the people who know us. I guess I'm just trying to detach day by day and Gal. Not much more I can do. Stepping way back and letting her experience what she thinks is making her happy. She was young 20 when we married. So who knows MLC and WW all in one. I'm over the being devastated. I was just hoping to see something fall my way instead of getting worse all the time. Thanks for checking in on me. Any suggestions are worth the world to me. Thanks for suggesting the books.