That was good. You showed some strength. Now, that he knows you want a schedule. I'd sit down and write one down on a note pad. When he shows up, be nice and say "I spent some time putting together a schedule for us ". See what he says and then stick to your guns. If he starts making excuses why it won't work for him, you need to be firm with him on the importance of having structure in your D life. Plus let him know that you might have plans once in a while and will need to know if arrangements will need to be made etc. I don't think you will have any problems if you plan it out in your mind. And it's all about your child, not about your R or M. And you definitely rattled his cage when he left. So, now it's time to kick it into gear and dont set yourself back by reaching out by texting etc. Just be silent and watch from a distance. Keep it up.
ME 47 W 38 M17 T20 Separated 5/20/18 D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed 4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15