I told him it was ok and he came and I said I was going to hop in the shower and then she needed to go to bed. And he said ok but was definitely annoyed with me. So when I got out of the shower I was nice to him and tried to get the baby to laugh with him. And then I asked him when he planning on coming next and he asked if I had plans this weekend and I said no but that we should just make a schedule and I could tell he was trying to get out of the discussion and I said “basically we need to discuss times. You could have texted me earlier tonight to let me know you would be so late.”
He said he could have texted a little earlier and told me how he almost got in an accident and then I said when we talked last you said you wanted to see her every night. So then you not showing up last night I didn’t know about. And you were here Friday with her when I went out and then no show Saturday, so I just want to get days and times figured out so we can both have our own lives and also figure out what times work best with her.....
And I asked if that made sense to him and he said yes. He was definitely trying to get out of coming this weekend and then saying he wants her during the day Sunday, and I said “ok so you’re not coming tomorrow night” and he said” no I can come tomorrow.... I’ll Be here by the time you get off work”
I don’t know it’s all very weird. He has an agenda FOR SURE. Without a doubt.
When he left he texted me saying “leaving her s*cks”.
