Extremely wise words. I seriously feel like I need to read them daily. Multiple times daily. Here I am at home with D at 7:30 pm and he hasn’t come to see her like he asked if he could. I fed her, bathed her, and will put her to bed soon regardless of if/when he decides to show up. But I won’t reach out to him, sticking to the silence. If he chooses to make these awful decisions it his loss, not mine.