... Silence can speak louder than words and it doesn't get you in as much trouble. Since you just started the DB. I think you just get some time under your belt....I thought my sitch would be over by now and life would be back to normal...lol. It is a marathon. It will take way longer than you think. And so don't get discouraged. I know you want to save your M. The only way is for you to change. He already knows what he would be coming back to. So for now, don't talk...take action on yourself. ...and don't act all sweet all the time. Once he realizes he's losing you he will start to wonder whats been going on. ....Set that dude free so you can get your confidence back. Go out with friends and talk to people. You don't need to go chase other men. Just get out and breath. Don't wait another second for him to call or decide to come see D whenever he wants. Dont keep her from him but set a schedule that works for both of you. Remember, the sooner you start making changes for you the sooner you will see changes in your whole sitch. Stay silent for as long as you can. He will start to wonder. Stay strong and make yourself look good for you, not him. Trust me, he will notice....dont let him back easy...or he will do it again. Make him work for it. But for now...work on yourself!!!
Wise words.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
