Thanks. Yeah, I've been DB'ing, GALing, etc (somewhat. lol). We're still in the same house, but not in the same bed (although unfortunately that started a while ago, not just since BD). My W has gotten drunk and nuts a few times during this. Like I said, your sitch and mine seem somewhat similar, so I'm going to stay interested in your progress!
Edit: In my sitch, there has still been ZERO sex, and very little physical contact or affection at all.
Hey Terapin found your threads and read through, tough situation. Wish I could give you advice but this is new to me. There are some similarities though in our situations. I found I couldn't move ahead until I truly let go, I was mad too I was going to go file on my own and say here now you got what you want. Once I accepted it and let go things started to change, and my anger, self hate, guilt, and frustration fell away, I was stripped of it, and it felt good. I am going through life right now feeling that my wife doesn't want me, and I am OK with that. And it seems the more I accept it the more responsive she is. Still have a long road ahead.
Originally Posted by Seekn
Paul,
Have read over your sitch and looks like good progress is being made. I wish you the best and will continue to check in. Best wishes. Take care.
