First post, what next?

[Terapin]

Hi Paul. I've been following your sitch. I'm a noob and in a similar sitch, so I don't have any real advice to offer. Your W does sound like mine in a way. My W said she wanted a D, was texting some dweeb for a few weeks, had it blow up on her, and has still not moved towards D. Of course, she hasn't moved towards R either, but whatever. Anyway, I guess like everyone says, be the best that you can be, and hang in there!

Hi Terapin, sorry you are going through the same thing it's a rough road. Have you been able to pull back? Are you still in the same house?

Thanks. Yeah, I've been DB'ing, GALing, etc (somewhat. lol). We're still in the same house, but not in the same bed (although unfortunately that started a while ago, not just since BD). My W has gotten drunk and nuts a few times during this. Like I said, your sitch and mine seem somewhat similar, so I'm going to stay interested in your progress!

Edit: In my sitch, there has still been ZERO sex, and very little physical contact or affection at all.