Been a few days so I figure I would put an update. Kids have started school and have been having a blast, W and I have been working on the new house, light, upbeat mood, we have really been enjoying eachothers company, W has been initating hugs and kisses a bit, we've been talking a lot, her mama is still sick in the hospital so we have been driving the 120 mile round trip every few days to see her, together with the kids. She's to come home soon. Still been reading DB and DR, and my 180s are continuing. W said she has noticed a much happier, composed, upbeat me and said it is refreshing. Planning for our future and opening up a lot more about how we feel and makes makes us tick. Been a dramatic month, and progress is flowing. I am constantly working on my actions and how I respond to situations and am a lot happier myself. Any feedback welcome. Well DBers, stay strong, much love y'all.