Hi Paul. I've been following your sitch. I'm a noob and in a similar sitch, so I don't have any real advice to offer. Your W does sound like mine in a way. My W said she wanted a D, was texting some dweeb for a few weeks, had it blow up on her, and has still not moved towards D. Of course, she hasn't moved towards R either, but whatever. Anyway, I guess like everyone says, be the best that you can be, and hang in there!
Hi Terapin, sorry you are going through the same thing it's a rough road. Have you been able to pull back? Are you still in the same house?
