A lesson on infidelity I learned the hard way

Some individuals are hard wired to be monogamous

When she has feeling for OM

She has to tell you I want a divorce

That gives her license to pursue OM

And not feel guilty for cheating

And when things are not going well with OM

She may come back and charm you

And yes want to have passionate sex with you

This back and forth can go on for some time

To the LBS it is extremely confusing

She said she wanted a d

And now you are acting like love birds

At best she is confused

And may even be asking herself

How can I feel this way about two men at the same time

At worst she is manipulative

And is just keeping you on the hook

She will be skeptical of the change in you

For a long time until she is sure it is real

Does she know you are against open marriage

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving