Lw, I'm not going to encourage you to let your wife see the family dog. That has been well covered.

But I will encourage you to be honest about why you will not.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.