...I do think if I were to say "you are welcome to join us" he would take that as me trying to spend time with him and thats not what I want right now...
We are trying to get him to stop asking to see baby at last minute. You are not waiting around for him. You made plans. He can't interrupt your plans.
If he wants to see the baby last minute, it is under YOUR conditions.
I set up appoint for her to get her picture taken.
Going to the zoo
to the park
to the swimming pool
to grand-moms house
to my friends house
the choices are endless.....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
